The Gatewood's profound influence during my teenage years had such an effect on my life that becoming a statistic of the system was NOT an option. However, the term “foster kid” was not typically used in our house. The expectations set within our home did not leave anything related to foster care as an acceptable excuse. Their constant and fierce advocating for the best interest of each individual child that came into their home could not be ignored. Three adoptions, a dozen fosters and countless players, students, and all others in need… the Gatewood’s succeeded simply by putting the needs of others first. I will always identify as a foster kid. It’s part of me. Just like the Gatewoods are a part of me. And I can only pray that more kids have foster parents like them.